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love and friendship.
kyupol at 4:35PM, Oct. 29, 2007
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Yeah my first college crush inspired me to draw my first comic book epic. Man, it was sappy. If I posted it I'm sure I'd get tons of fangirls, but I have too much self-respect.

DO IT!!! OMG I FEEL SO KAWAII!!!! AND POST IT UP IN DRUNKDUCK!!! SINCE YOU DRAW PRETTY GOOD, PLEASE PUT SO MANY BISHOUNENS IN IT OK!!! ^^ XD lol!

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bobby_the_kid at 4:48PM, Oct. 29, 2007
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i'm in love right now.
not only does this person not know i'm in love,
but also that i'm jealous of the one that this person loves.it aint me.

would it be completly insane to say that i formed this out of arguing with this person?
WEEEEEEE!flesh eating hamsters and happy hour girlie drinks make good bobby!
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Puff_Of_Smoke at 4:54PM, Oct. 29, 2007
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would it be completly insane to say that i formed this out of arguing with this person?

not really.

Me and my girlfriend, before we even were friends, hated eachother's guts. We got stuck in a room together (because one of my friends was a friend of her friends and they decided to play a little joke on us just to see what would happen.) we both got bored and started talking. voila.

FRIENDSHIP

and a little bit of intercourse…

just kidding of course… I was only 11 at the time :P
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I have a gun. It's really powerful. Especially against living things.
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bobby_the_kid at 4:56PM, Oct. 29, 2007
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i never hated him/her.
XD.

i just always talked back.


the other thing is that this person is lots older then me.
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Puff_Of_Smoke at 4:58PM, Oct. 29, 2007
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we argued all the time:P

the arguements would develop into happy school gossip:D
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I have a gun. It's really powerful. Especially against living things.
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bobby_the_kid at 5:00PM, Oct. 29, 2007
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lucky.you too have gossip!!!

school gossip with a college kid.
would never work.
WEEEEEEE!flesh eating hamsters and happy hour girlie drinks make good bobby!
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Poke Alster at 9:22AM, Oct. 30, 2007
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WTH? If you broke up with her then it's over. Either you're just friends or you're nothing. Unless she's been giving you signals?

Yep girls do that
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mlai at 11:20AM, Oct. 30, 2007
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If you're getting mixed signals and you want to confront her about it, the best way is to do it in a casual and flirty way while keeping the avenue for seriousness open. That way, she can confirm your suspicions if she feels the same way, but you give her a back door out if she doesn't, so that you can both just laugh about it and forget about it, without it making things all weird.

However I still think it's a delusion.

FIGHT current chapter: Filling In The Gaps
FIGHT_2 current chapter: Light Years of Gold
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subcultured at 12:19PM, Oct. 30, 2007
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i say you should pull her hair and call her all kinds of names :)
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Rutger at 12:41PM, Oct. 30, 2007
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WTH? If you broke up with her then it's over. Either you're just friends or you're nothing. Unless she's been giving you signals?

Don't be clingy like that. It'll just get weird and then you won't be friends with her anymore (which may be the best thing).

Man, this is why you can't be friends with guys.

There's been times that it seemed like there were signals, but I wasn't exactly sure. And I'm not clingy. It'snot like I'm around her all the time. There's times that we dont'speack to eachother for weeks, and there's time we see eachother almost every day, but I'm not forcing anything.

I'm happy with things as they are, and I'll be the last person to try and change things, but like I said, sometimes I still get that feeling when I see her. I can't help it.

K.A.L.A.-dan! rutGAR desu!
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kyupol at 6:56PM, Oct. 30, 2007
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wouldnt it be cool to just be a psychopath so that relationships would be much much easier? lol!



Freudian slips of the tongue (indicative of mental conflict)
Guilt feelings (covered up, but wants to be punished for something)
Uses defense mechanism of projection (blaming others for own faults)
Uses defense mechanism of displacement (ditching, self-handicapping, settling for 2nd best, being own worst enemy, but feels entitled to something or being 1st)
Oral fixation (smokes or always has to have something in mouth)
Oedipus complex (or other love/hate relationship with parents)
Comes from dysfunctional family or broken home (absent or abusive father)
Impervious to fear, anxiety, depression, or remorse (unremorseful) Superficially charming, a real cool cat (manipulative and conning)
Inability to love or express emotions deeply, can't respond to kindness (cold)
Pathological lying (for no reason at all, can't help self)
No self-insight (doesn't reflect much upon own personality makeup)
No self-humor (can't stand to be the butt of jokes or can't laugh at self)
A fairly high IQ (good grades in school or disparity in achievement) Uses neologisms (makes up strange new words, abbreviations, or sayings)
Fascination with fire (or death, or purified ways to destroy something)
Cruelty to animals (or doesn't like animals)
Lack of probity, courtesy, or doesn't tolerate society's “niceties” or obligations
Moody, obsessive-compulsive, suffers from one or more phobias
Does not tend to learn from mistakes unless immediate punishment given
Lack of formal-operational thinking (tends to think in concrete, black-or-white terms)
Identity conflict (often with delayed adolescence, hasn't grown up in certain ways)
Preconventional morality (thinks things are wrong only because it might lead to punishment or it's not in his/her best interests right now, failure to understand disparities between own behavior and socially acceptable behavior, often in trouble with law)





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suzi at 7:29PM, Oct. 30, 2007
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omg, there is no such thing as a “psychopath.” If you even read the page you got that from it mentions the various different ways “psychopathy” has been argued about.

Sorry, I'm a psychology major and I've taken some sociology, and DSM-IV style checklists usually really bother me. Especially when they're basically folklore, like that one.
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Sidwarrious at 7:41PM, Oct. 30, 2007
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I don't know what to say about the pyscho thing. I WAS a psychology major for several years, but there's so much in fighting and bitching amongst people facts are too hard to get down. Maybe if in fifty years or something I was just then being 18 and could study it in my flying space college, I'd be all for it.
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cartoonprofessor at 7:46PM, Oct. 30, 2007
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Personally, not legally married… It's just a bit of paper to us.
My ‘wife’ is my bestest friend, sole mate, and porpoise in life.
Can't imagine living without her.
Been together 15 years now and going strong.

(Sorry for the awful fish jokes)
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Sidwarrious at 7:50PM, Oct. 30, 2007
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Professor no! I'm blinded! At least you didn't go all out bad pun “She's the light ‘at the end of my tunnel’or my life”

Heard someone say that once. Bottle hit him right in the head. Yeah, I threw it. It was a dumb thing to say!
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mlai at 7:14AM, Oct. 31, 2007
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Shouldn't use the word ‘tunnel’ when talking about your wife in public.

FIGHT current chapter: Filling In The Gaps
FIGHT_2 current chapter: Light Years of Gold
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kyupol at 7:35AM, Oct. 31, 2007
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omg, there is no such thing as a “psychopath.”

first time i heard this. why is that?
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Tantz Aerine at 9:56AM, Oct. 31, 2007
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I use content analysis. It's a wet blanket for men trying to impress you.

I also like encyclopedic knowledge. Also a wet blanket for men trying to impress you.

Men find me intimidating, but well… what can a girl do? lol!
 
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TheMidge28 at 10:29AM, Oct. 31, 2007
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I use content analysis. It's a wet blanket for men trying to impress you.

I also like encyclopedic knowledge. Also a wet blanket for men trying to impress you.

Men find me intimidating, but well… what can a girl do? lol!

act like a dizzy easily impressed broad.
Seems to work for a lot of women.
Can't say it has impressed me.
I always appreciated my wife's intelligence.
One of the major things I love about her…
besides her fun-bags!
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Tantz Aerine at 11:04AM, Oct. 31, 2007
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at like a dizzy easily impressed broad.


But what would that get me? A ditsy guy with a brittle yet overblown self esteem. lol!

That would be working at cross purposes, ne? ;)

And I yet do not really understand what those women accomplish by acting like that. Neither love nor friendship for sure and self-esteem? Nope- more like loose what's left of it.
 
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subcultured at 11:14AM, Oct. 31, 2007
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aren't you married tantz?
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Tantz Aerine at 11:42AM, Oct. 31, 2007
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aren't you married tantz?

Hmmm. What do I sound like? ;)
 
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ozoneocean at 11:59AM, Oct. 31, 2007
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Hmmm. What do I sound like? ;)
Desperate lol!



Not really… I just had to make that joke :)
I thought you were married too.
 
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carly_mizzou at 12:10PM, Oct. 31, 2007
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I was married…once. Yah I don't recommend it. not that I'm against marriage in general. I dunno people change and all that crap…

actually now that I think of it I'm still TECHNICALLY married but considering my husband lives with another chickie… (ha ha I'm totally cool with it, just glad he's gone)
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kyupol at 5:40PM, Oct. 31, 2007
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NEVER in my right mind will I try to “impress” women. If I ever do that, either:

1) possessed by a devil
2) under a jedi mind trick
3) high
4) drunk
5) under a government mind control program

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marine at 9:51PM, Oct. 31, 2007
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NEVER in my right mind will I try to “impress” women. If I ever do that, either:

1) possessed by a devil
2) under a jedi mind trick
3) high
4) drunk
5) under a government mind control program
6) horny


Yeah, that sounds about right.

carly_mizzou
I was married…once.

Never again!
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Tantz Aerine at 2:58AM, Nov. 1, 2007
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Hmmm. What do I sound like? ;)
Desperate lol!



Not really… I just had to make that joke :)
I thought you were married too.

Well my official raspberries to you OO :P

Well, I could be married ;) What makes me sound like that ?
 
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Phantom Penguin at 4:47AM, Nov. 1, 2007
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Yes. this happened to me and I was dating them for years after we had ‘the talk’ when we both saw how we felt about eachother.

Then I had to go away somewhere she couldn't go for a year and a half, she cheated on me and we broke up when I got back.

…i'm sad now.
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bbr at 3:05PM, Nov. 4, 2007
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Yes. this happened to me and I was dating them for years after we had ‘the talk’ when we both saw how we felt about eachother.

Then I had to go away somewhere she couldn't go for a year and a half, she cheated on me and we broke up when I got back.

…i'm sad now.

Been there done that.
Ah yeh, it sucks pretty bad when you give her a call, and some guy you never heard of before answers the phone….. T,T

Ye get over it, and find another,
or just stay single while wondering where things went wrong.
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marine at 9:25PM, Nov. 4, 2007
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A little something I was working on:

I often think what if. What if we had worked things out. What if it ended differently. I didn't have my issues and she hadn't had hers. But I can't think what if anymore. Any ifs died with her. Thats it, and its over. Thats the end of the story right there. She's done with me, and regrettably, I can never be done with her.
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