note to those who think I'm cute: sorry to everyone else: as suprising as it may be in real life I'm REALLY shy, nad I need your support to tell this girl that I have a ‘crush’ on her…
If she's always with her friends bring your friends for her friends to talk to. Heard of the saying Your friends could meet my friends and we could be friends.
Well, why don't you just write a letter and put it in her mail then? I think you should be able to do that, just make it something simple aswell, making stuff too complicated doesn't feels like something you should do for some reason.
2 things...
1. I just relised it's tuesday, I feel so foolish now...
2. @ poki_rat and Bluey: umm, 2 things, 1) there's no social events to ask her out to, except for homecoming, but that's a month from now, 2) I go to the same youth group as her, I can't spend much time there because A, I don't do well with talking... B, she's around her friends when she's there, if I suddenly walked up to them and started talking I'd have no idea what to do!
I'm the flirt type so serious love hasn't really been much for me so...
Ask her to a social event like Poki Rat said
and be honest say you might be nervous and taake it slow, figure out what she likes.
I don't know if I'm the best person to ask. I've never really been in your position. My only boyfriend was also one of my closest friends and he kinda tricked me into our first date. That isn't something I think you should do. But maybe you could start by asking her if she would like to join you for a social event, like a party or a fair of some kind. Having fun could make you more comfortable around her. But that's only an idea.
thanks for the support,
@nerd fury: it's kind of hard to not think about it because I've thought about it... for like 4 years!
@ulthor: I would tell her on facebook but, I can't find her profile, she has one, my friend said so, but I can't seem to see it...
There are several ways you could do this, you could just try to accumulate enough courage and tell them face to face, or you could write a letter with how you feel and hand the person you like this letter and then either stay or just leave, another way is to call them to say it since people usually feel less shy over the phone, there are lots more ways of course.
Whatever way you do it though, you got my support, so do your best, I know you can do it.
Believe me, it's not hard to believe you're shy in real life. I am too. Come to think of it, I'm basically in your exact position in real life -_-
Basically you just need to buck up and do it without giving yourself a chance to even think about what you're doing.
Bluey at 5:37PM, Aug. 28, 2009
If she's always with her friends bring your friends for her friends to talk to. Heard of the saying Your friends could meet my friends and we could be friends.
yoshi freak at 9:48AM, Aug. 27, 2009
no...
Nerd Fury at 2:33PM, Aug. 26, 2009
Do you know her email address?
yoshi freak at 10:00AM, Aug. 26, 2009
Problem, I have no idea where she lives, actually, I think I know the neighborhood but that's it...
ulthor at 7:36AM, Aug. 26, 2009
Well, why don't you just write a letter and put it in her mail then? I think you should be able to do that, just make it something simple aswell, making stuff too complicated doesn't feels like something you should do for some reason.
yoshi freak at 11:15PM, Aug. 25, 2009
Man, that would be creepy...
Nerd Fury at 4:20PM, Aug. 25, 2009
.....The second part of that last post made me start questioning if we're somehow the same person.
yoshi freak at 4:10PM, Aug. 25, 2009
2 things... 1. I just relised it's tuesday, I feel so foolish now... 2. @ poki_rat and Bluey: umm, 2 things, 1) there's no social events to ask her out to, except for homecoming, but that's a month from now, 2) I go to the same youth group as her, I can't spend much time there because A, I don't do well with talking... B, she's around her friends when she's there, if I suddenly walked up to them and started talking I'd have no idea what to do!
Bluey at 3:11PM, Aug. 25, 2009
Just incase it doesn't seem obvious spend time with her and remember details.
Bluey at 3:09PM, Aug. 25, 2009
I'm the flirt type so serious love hasn't really been much for me so... Ask her to a social event like Poki Rat said and be honest say you might be nervous and taake it slow, figure out what she likes.
Nerd Fury at 2:23PM, Aug. 25, 2009
Still know the feeling. Just go for it in whatever way you can and don't worry about what happens after.
Poki_rat at 12:46PM, Aug. 25, 2009
I don't know if I'm the best person to ask. I've never really been in your position. My only boyfriend was also one of my closest friends and he kinda tricked me into our first date. That isn't something I think you should do. But maybe you could start by asking her if she would like to join you for a social event, like a party or a fair of some kind. Having fun could make you more comfortable around her. But that's only an idea.
yoshi freak at 10:11AM, Aug. 25, 2009
thanks for the support, @nerd fury: it's kind of hard to not think about it because I've thought about it... for like 4 years! @ulthor: I would tell her on facebook but, I can't find her profile, she has one, my friend said so, but I can't seem to see it...
Nerd Fury at 10:02AM, Aug. 25, 2009
I'm with Ulthor on this one. I usually do that last option myself >_> Anyway, good luck. You have my support, buddy :)
ulthor at 9:12AM, Aug. 25, 2009
There are several ways you could do this, you could just try to accumulate enough courage and tell them face to face, or you could write a letter with how you feel and hand the person you like this letter and then either stay or just leave, another way is to call them to say it since people usually feel less shy over the phone, there are lots more ways of course. Whatever way you do it though, you got my support, so do your best, I know you can do it.
Devvy at 7:49AM, Aug. 25, 2009
Yet another fact of life, once you develop feeling for someone its hard to tell them =/
Nerd Fury at 7:23AM, Aug. 25, 2009
Believe me, it's not hard to believe you're shy in real life. I am too. Come to think of it, I'm basically in your exact position in real life -_- Basically you just need to buck up and do it without giving yourself a chance to even think about what you're doing.
zealotjohn at 4:08AM, Aug. 25, 2009
its hard to, i know